Forms of Personal Pronouns
Subject |
Object |
Possessive (adjective) |
Possessive (standing alone) |
|
| First person singular | I | me | my | mine |
| First person plural | we | us | our | ours |
| Second person singular (and plural) |
you | you | your | yours |
| Third person singular | he | him | his | his |
| she | her | her | hers | |
| it | it | its | its (rare) | |
| Third person plural | they | them | their | theirs |
After a Linking Verb
Use the subject form of the pronoun after a linking verb, such as be.
| Example |
It was she who sent the bouquet. [Many would choose to revise this sentence to sound less formal: She was the one who sent the bouquet.] |
After a Verb and Before an Infinitive
Use an object pronoun after a verb and before an infinitive. When a sentence has only one
object, this principle is easy to apply.
| Example | The dean wanted him to lead the procession. |
Difficulties occur with compound objects.
| Faulty | The dean wanted he and I to lead the procession. | |
| Revised | The dean wanted him and me to lead the procession. |
In a Compound Subject or Object with and
Use subject and object pronouns in the correct form with compound subjects and objects
joined by and.
| Example |
He and his sister invited my cousin and me to their party. [subject = He and his sister; object = my cousin and me] |
Do not rely on what sounds familiar, because nonstandard forms often occur with
compound structures in speech.
To decide which pronoun form to use with a compound subject or object, mentally recast the
sentence with only the pronoun in the subject or object position.
| Faulty | Jenny and me went to the movies. | |
| Revised |
Jenny and I went to the movies. [If Jenny is dropped, you would say I went to the movies, not me went to the movies. Here you need the subject form, I.] |
|
| Faulty | They told my brother and I to wait in line. | |
| Revised |
They told my brother and me to wait in line. [If my brother is dropped, you would say They told me to wait in line. You need the object form, me. ] |
After a Preposition
After a preposition, you need an object form.
| Example |
I started off rapping for people just like myself, people who were in awe of wealth and flash. It was a conversation between me and them. Ice-T, Observer, 27 October 1991. |
The following sentences need editing:
| Faulty | Him and his brother waved to my mother and I. | |
| Revised |
He and his brother waved to my mother and me. |
|
| Faulty | Between you and I, the company is in serious trouble. | |
| Revised | Between you and me, the company is in serious trouble. |
In Appositive Phrases and with we or us before a
Noun
When using a pronoun in an appositive phrase (one that gives more specific information about a preceding noun), determine if the noun that the pronoun refers to functions as subject or object in its own clause.
| Example | The supervisor praised only two employees, Ramon and me. |
| Description |
Ramon and me = direct object: two employees |
| Example | Only two employees, Ramon and I, received a bonus. |
| Description | Ramon and I = subject: two employees |
Similarly, when you consider whether to use we or us before a noun, use us when the pronoun is the direct object of a verb or preposition, we when it is the subject.
| Example | The singer waved to us fans. |
| Description |
object of preposition = us |
| Example | We fans have decided to form a club. |
| Description | subject = We |
In Comparisons
When writing comparisons with than and as, decide on the subject or object
form of the pronoun by mentally completing the meaning of the comparison. Then you can
determine the grammatical function of the pronoun.
| Examples |
She is certainly not more intelligent than I. [. . . not more intelligent than I am.] Jack and Sally work in the same office; Jack criticizes his boss more than she. [. . . more than she does.] Jack and Sally work in the same office; Jack criticizes his boss more than her. [. . . more than he criticizes Sally.] |
See also
Possessive Forms
Clear Reference
Agreement with Antecedent
Gender Bias
Point of View
Use of you
Intensive and Reflexive Pronouns
Who Whom, Whoever Whomever