
The work of Clarissa Pinkola Estés bridges science and art, psychology
and poetry, mythology and psychotherapy. In all these roles, she acts in the ancient
Latina tradition of a cantadora--"keeper of the old stories."
Estés is a woman of Mexican descent who was adopted by a Hungarian family.
She grew up near the Michigan state line and spent as many hours as she could
in the woods, orchards, and farmlands near her home. "I learned about the sacred
art of self-decoration with monarch butterflies perched atop my head, lightning
bugs as my night jewelry, and emerald-green frogs as bracelets" she writes in
Women Who Run With the Wolves.
Estés also excelled in academics, earning a Ph.D. in clinical psychology
and intercultural studies. She is a Jungian psychoanalyst and past executive
director of the C. G. Jung Centers for Education and Research in the United
States.
Estés became known to the general public through her book Women Who
Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype. Her original
manuscript was rejected by 47 publishers over 20 years. Since its release, the
book has been translated into 18 languages. It spent over 99 weeks on the New
York Times bestseller lists, and over 2,000,000 copies are in print worldwide.
"Wolves and women are relational by nature, inquiring, possessed of great endurance
and strength" Estés writes. "They are deeply intuitive, intensely concerned
with their young, their mates, and their pack. They are experienced in adapting
to constantly changing circumstances; they are fiercely stalwart and very brave."
Yet both wolves and women are often portrayed as devious and even dangerous.
Women have been pressured into a social role that represses their instinctual
nature. Treated as property, women are taught to be "refined" and to silence
their opinions. They are instructed in ways to attract men and then live in
psychological and financial dependence. "The modern woman is a blur of activity,"
states Dr. Estés. "She is pressured to be all things to all people. The
old knowing is long overdue."
One way to restore that knowing is by telling stories. Women have a way of
knowing that is distinct from mens', writes Dr. Estés, and traditional
theories in psychology seldom tap into this perspective. Myths, folk tales and
legends can do a better job by penetrating womens' minds at many levels, both
intellectual and emotional.
In traditional cultures, stories were devices that taught people about the
meaning and purpose of life and guided them through the mysteries of birth,
sex, love, and death. Stories can instruct, entertain, and awaken intuition.
In addition, Dr. Estés believes, hearing certain stories can remind women
of what they already know, help to restore their creativity, and rekindle their
natural compassion. Stories can literally heal.
An example is the story of the ugly duckling, published in 1845 by Hans Christian
Andersen and retold in Women Who Run With the Wolves. In the story, a mother
duck hatches an egg, and what emerges is a creature she can hardly believe is
one of her own. The young bird looks nothing like a duckling; even the mother
wonders if she has hatched a turkey by mistake. The other ducks hiss, bite,
and peck at the ugly ducking until he decides to run away to escape further
ridicule. He wanders the countryside for months and eventually takes refuge
in a pond populated with swans. There, seeing his reflection in the water, the
bird discovers that he looks exactly like these beautiful creatures. All along,
he has been a swan and not a duckling. In that moment, he finds his true identity
and his true family.
In Estés retelling, this story becomes a tale about what happens to
people who fail to conform to society's expectations. "When culture narrowly
defines what constitutes success or desirable perfection in anything--looks,
height, strength, form, acquisitive power, economics, manliness, womanliness,
good children, good behavior, religious belief--then corresponding mandates
to measure oneself against these criteria are introjected into the psyches of
all members of that culture," writes Estés. For her, one lesson of the
story is that we can endure rejection even by our family of origin and finally
find the kinship that allows us to feel at home.
Other books by Dr. Estés include The Gift of Story: A Wise Tale About
What Is Enough and The Faithful Gardener: Myths and Stories About That Which
Can Never Die. She is also featured in Theatre of the Imagination, a thirteen-part
series broadcast on public radio stations throughout America.